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Events from real life

1.        Since my middle school to high school, my teachers as well as my parents advised me not to go anywhere without their permission, especially at the places where I can face the bad stares of males having bad intentions. The educators had an eye on us for sake of check and balance (because parents asked for it) that their students might not get emotionally involved in someone, as they were of the view that in teenage, sexual desire can be sparked only through a ‘Loving Gaze’ from the opposite gender and finally ended up in losing virginity. In context of my past experience, now, being on a mature person level, I can term those restrictions analogous to “VIRGINITY VOUCHER: DON’T BUY THE LIE, SAVE SEX FOR MARRIAGE” (VALENTI 2009: 31), as my parents as well as sex educators in school, believe on the Religious myth (on which virginity movement based on) that premarital sex is a sin, so they imposed restrictions on me so that I could save my virginity ...

Love, Sex and Romance

The racial behaviors towards different sexual identities still exist in most corners of the world which have found to be a very bad impact on the ways people experience love, sex and romance and how they construct “acceptable” or “unacceptable” performances of sex, love and romance. It has been seen through the history of sexuality that homosexuals have been victimized of sexual oppression and wherever found, were sanctioned to ghetto by the sex-law (Rubin 1993). This is because false judgments have been made on them and so they often treated with disrespect in the early 70s and 80s, but after massive campaigns to give homosexuals equal rights as that of heterosexuals, they were given respect as a result and now they are not ashamed of their identity as a “Lesbian” or “gay”, I think this was a healthy move of legislative structure, as massive homosexual population now don’t need to hide in a ROOM just to satisfy their inner-natural needs. Social Construction Theory entertains homo...